Breakup Fashion

My latest and GREATEST addition to my wardrobe are the shoes pictured below. I bet you are starting to catch on that I am a shoe addict…(go figure)

Well, for my other shoeaholics out there, this one’s for you. A beautiful pair of shoes from White House Black Market. These are my current must have of the moment (esp. since I got them on sale for $14.99 from $98!).

Can I get a woo hoo?

My breakup seems to have made my shoe collection, quite a bit larger. Oh well, a girl needs a shoe for every occasion, correct?

Hey ladies, these shoes may not be your cup of tea, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find your own shoe of the moment. Go out there and see what you like, it might just give you that little extra spring in your step.

Love,

Miss Behaving xox

Breakup Tip #7

This one goes out to all the shopaholics out there…

Shop till you drop may be your life motto right now but it can also be detrimental to the breakup process. Yes, you want to go out and buy a cute outfit, that’s fine. However, spending money you didn’t have to begin with to get that extra pair of Prada shoes will not get you anywhere, besides being in a lot of debt and no one wants that. I truly believe in shopping and enjoying time outside of your bedroom, but when the credit card seems to be paying for all the mistakes your ex made, there is a problem.

Monitor your spending habits, enjoy your free time but remember your bank account should not have to pay for his mistakes. I will warn you spending money has always been an easy way to get a quick fix from my breakup woes  but buying all these cute clothes that I don’t have an occasion for is unnecessary and a waste of money.

Yes, you want your ex to see you and think, what was I thinking,but you don’t want to have to go into debt to make him feel that way. All I am saying is be careful how much you spend, allow yourself to window shop and buy things you need, but don’t go overboard.

I would, however, recommend going through your closet during this time and getting rid of all those old clothes you never liked anyway because after all helping make other people look good, is a great feeling, so why not share the love?

Love,

Miss Behaving xox

Breakup Fashion

My must buy of the moment is the shoes pictures below…I love them (enough said).

I must admit that my love for shoes is a little ridiculous (if you saw my closet you would understand), but my justification for this particular pair of shoes is as follows:

1. Classy (can be worn to work)

2. A sensible color that goes with most things

3. I love them (did I mention this?)

Ok, so maybe number three isn’t quite validation that I should buy this particular pair, but when it comes to the aftermath of a breakup, I think everyone should be allowed to treat themsevles every once in a while, right?

Breakups are often a time in my life where I feel a strong desire to shop. Yes, like many other women out there I am a shopaholic, but add a breakup to the mix and it’s disaster. You see, many times my credit card will pay the price of my ex’s mistakes, which means more debt for me and a much fuller closet. As much as I enjoy owning nice things, I do need to take control of my shopping habits after a breakup.

So, all this is to say, be careful how much you spend after a breakup, I am all about treating yourself every now and then, but don’t get carried away. So, I herby allow you to buy yourself something nice but don’t get the matching bag…just yet 😉

xox

Breakup Fashion

So, he’s out of your life…but we all know that if we just happen to run into him one day, we at least want to look good doing it.

Below are a few suggestions for what to wear for such a run in read more here