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Breakup Tip #41

The letdown, we’ve all had them, right?

Relationships aren’t easy; you hear it over and over again. You will have your ups and your downs but you need to stick through it. Unfortunately, there will come a time when your significant other will let you down (or vice versa). This won’t be something you plan on but let’s face it we’re all human…

Now, I’m not telling you to let this guy go because he didn’t do something he said he was going to do or he was supposed to pick up your mother from the airport but he totally forget. These things are forgivable but when a guy lets you down time after time, should you stay with him or not?

For most women we are more prone to letting things go, we say our peace and get over it. However, when a guy does something to diminish your trust time after time, it may be time to ask why are we sticking around? In particular, if a guy you are dating doesn’t seem to care anymore or he is just too lazy to do something, shouldn’t that be a huge flashing warning sign that he isn’t the
one?

I would think so.

Love is blinding, it’s true! We can make up a million excuses for a guy we are madly in love with. What I’m trying to tell you is, if a guy is consistently letting you down, not giving you the time of day or just couldn’t care less if he sees you or not, he is probably not going to get any better.

Cut the ties and let him loose, you deserve to be treated with the same respect you give him. Admittedly, guys and girls will let each other down, we all make mistakes but when a guy doesn’t care enough about a girl it will be clear in his actions. So, keep this in mind, don’t get walked over, be strong and be brave, if he isn’t the one it’s better to know now than later.

Until next time,

Miss Behaving xox

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Breakup Tip #36

He loves you, he loves you not…but why waste your time on someone who isn’t sure how they feel about you?

This is a dilemma many women face. We receive mix signals from the guy we like and although we may not have even dated the guy he still has the ability to break our heart. It’s true.

So, what do you do when you have already fallen for this guy only to be left totally confused? You want to believe he likes you, after all those text messages or Facebook messages he sends makes you believe he is making an effort. The problem is, if a guy is into us he won’t need to wait two weeks to respond to our messages and as much as we can convince ourselves that he is “busy.” like he said he is, the hard truth is he probably isn’t the one for you.

Let me put it this way, if you want the happy ever after it won’t be with the guy who couldn’t care less if he doesn’t see or hear from you for weeks on end. It will be with a guy who can’t wait to talk to you and doesn’t want to skip one (yes, ONE) single day without talking,texting or Facebook messaging you!

Do you get it, Ladies?

Sometimes a break-up doesn’t need to be with the person you’re actually dating but rather the person you are so longing to date. You need to break-up with him (mentally), please don’t send him any sort of communication to indicate this solution, he will in fact think you’re insane. Which on a plus side would make this easier –just kidding!

Look, if your heart is hurting because this guy is sending you mixed signals then why put yourself through the pain? You don’t need to. Take a step back, look at it realistically and decide whether or not you can put up with this, if not, it’s time to move on. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t really want to be there. It will only make the heartbreak that much worse in the end.

I’ve played the waiting game and it’s never worked out in my favor. This one’s up to you, ladies, but if I were you, I would kick this one to the curb and wait for the one that really wants to be with you.

Until next time,

Miss Behaving xox

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