Surviving one day at a time…
A breakup can be a life altering thing; it literally can send you through a loop if you weren’t expecting it. So, what do you do when all of a sudden the person you love has decided to pull the plug, how do you go about your everyday life without them?
We all know what it feels like, you get used to speaking to them before you go to bed, you spend most of your free time with them, they know your likes, your dislikes and hey they even have their own side of the bed. Suddenly it’s like a piece of the puzzle is missing and you don’t know how to go on without them. What I’m here to tell you is you will survive!
Getting used to someone not being in your life is never easy (no matter how they left) but it doesn’t need to be impossible. What it will take is a step by step process to getting back to a normal routine. Find out what YOU like to do and what things you would like to accomplish in your future. What it doesn’t mean is stalking/calling your ex everyday begging them to take you back.
It’s not easy forgetting someone you cared about but gradually you will move on, I can’t tell you how long this will be or when but one day you will realize you are better off without them. Believe me when I tell you I have been there and as much as the heartache hurt (almost killed me), in the end I was the person who was better off.
Give yourself time, lean on your friends and family and spend time finding yourself. You never know who you might meet along the way!
Until next time,
Miss Behaving xox