Breakup Tip #36

The dreaded DTR (determine the relationship- google it it’s a real acronym)

When you reach a certain point in any romantic relationship you have to wonder where this is going. Do we have a future together or is this just a fling? Well ladies sometimes the DTR can be the end of a relationship. Why? Because although we may think things are going really well our partner in this process may be feeling quite the opposite.

You see, as women we like to have clarity, we like to know that this relationship is going to last and we usually like to have some kind of official notification (let’s just call it a Facebook check on our relationship status). However, some guys like to date girls just to see if there is anything more there. When things start to get serious they may get scared and run away. However, at the end of the day if a guy isn’t sure that he wants to be in a relationship with you maybe he’s not so great after all.

I will warn you, however, most guys like to take their time and be sure that they are fully committed to you before making the jump into a relationship. But, when a guy tells you he isn’t sure or he is having second thoughts it may be time to take a step backwards and run the other direction.  Dating should be fun and care-free but let’s face it; we would at least like to know that this (whatever it is) is on track to something. No, I’m not saying we need to hear wedding bells in our future but an opportunity to say “hi blah blah” this is my boyfriend (insert name). After all, we like this person and we are proud to be with them!

So ladies, if a guy is breaking it off with you because you want to DTR then don’t worry because he obviously wasn’t worth it anyway. Move on and find someone who will want to be with you, without you have to ask in the first place…

Good luck girls J

Until next time!

Miss Behaving xox

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