The disappearing act…
Have you ever been in a relationship, it’s going along just fine when all of a sudden the guy just vanishes? No text, no phone call, not even a Facebook message and while you struggle to understand what the heck just happened he has decided to up and leave.
Out of all the break-ups that you could possibly endure the disappearing act may be one of the most painful. Why? Because everyone deserves to know why the other person left, even if the relationship wasn’t a good one. If you have ever had a break-up like this, I’m sorry because you deserve better and people that can’t be bothered to break-up with you don’t deserve to have you to begin with. It’s the biggest cop out of all.
So, while he is free to get on with his life, you are left wondering if he’s ever coming back. The worst part about the disappearing act is that no matter how many different ways you try to contact this person, he will not respond. It hurts and as much as you would have likes some closure, you won’t get it.
So, what does this mean? It’s time to move on. No, it won’t be easy and you will have to pick up the pieces bit by bit but what it doesn’t mean is the end of the world. Think of this as freedom from a relationship that wasn’t meant to be. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you, especially someone who doesn’t have the guts to tell you that. Be strong ladies because it will hurt for a while but it will get better.
Until next time xox