Breakup Tip #31

Sometimes a break-up doesn’t just involve a guy, sometimes it’s a friend too…

Breakup hurt, let’s face it but when they involve losing your friends too, it hurts even worse. Maybe you had mutual friends, maybe not, but somewhere along the lines your “friends” decided to side with you ex. Now, you not only feel abandoned by the guy that left you, but by your closest friends as well. So, what does this mean, It’s all over, right?

Wrong.

If my past relationships have taught me anything, it’s that your true friends will be there when you need them and those that decide to suddenly drop off the face of the planet were probably never good friends to begin with.

Sometimes a break-up can be the opportunity to meet new people, make new friends and truly find out who your real friends are. It doesn’t mean it won’t hurt any less and seeing your ex spend time with people you thought were once your friends will suck.

If there is one time in my life, I need my friends and the support of those that love me; it’s when I’m going through the turmoil of something life changing (i.e. a break-up). I understand and I’m here to tell you it’s going to be ok. I have been here and although it feels like the end of the world, it may be quite the opposite. Think of this new chapter in your life as a chance to meet others who share the same values, morals and likes as you do!

Who knows, you could end up meeting your best friend, not the person who said she was your best friend and then dumped you for Mr. Wrong.

It will be ok, I promise and as someone once said, “everything will be OK in the end, if it’s not ok, it’s not the end.”

Until next time,

Miss Behaving xox

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