Breakup Tip #19

Have you ever read, “He’s Just Not That into You?” Well for those of you who have, this one’s for you…

We’ve all been there, feeling like we finally met the right guy when all of a sudden he lets you down…just like all the rest. You begin to question if this is worth the risk of having your heart broken again. You see, books like “he’s just not that into you,” do not help girls like me. Yes, it’s very empowering to just tell the guy who hasn’t called in two days to get lost but does it really mean he isn’t that into you or are you reading too much into it?

These questions and many others have crossed my mind lately and I’m not entirely sure of the answer. I believe everyone has their reasons but whether or not these are valid is up to you. You see, at the end of the day it is YOUR decision on whether or not you want to continue dating this person. If they continue to make you unhappy, then maybe not.

I often think back to past relationships as a guideline for my future ones, if I see the same patterns in the relationship I am currently in with one that ended badly in the past, it may be time to cut the cord.Needless to say it isn’t easy to end something with someone when you’re not quite sure if he is a good guy or not.

Occasionally, you will meet someone who seems so totally different from all the rest that you dive headfirst into it. Unfortunately, this often leads to one person being more invested in the relationship than the other and while you are taking leaps and bounds forward the other person is pushing on the breaks. So, what do you do? Do you pull the plug or stop and wait for them to catch up (if they can). I don’t know, it depends on how you feel for this person and how you believe they feel for you, no one can really answer that except you and your guy.

What I am trying to tell you Ladies is you can’t always rely on books like “He’s Just Not that into You” to be your absolute Bible on all relationships. Every person is different and we all have our own baggage, you can’t assume we are all in the same place as one another. Base your decision upon your feelings for the other person and whether or not they make you happy.

You can do this!

Love,

Miss Behaving xox

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