Breakup Tip #2

Regrets. We all have them, some seem worse than others, but when it comes to a breakup, I know from personal experience, regret is part of the process.

We’ve all been there, right? The what if I had said this or what if I had done this differently? I know, its easy to let a million thoughts crowd your mind with the possibilities of what if and if only. But, guess what? Having regrets will not change the ending conclusion, you are still broken up. Why continue to torture yourself?

My good friend once told me, even if I had said something differently or maybe done something differently we most likely would still have broken up. You see? If a relationship isn’t working there isn’t much you can do or say to fix it, its broken.  

So, whats next? Go out and find someone new because they won’t want you to try and act or say something that isn’t you, they will value you for who you are already. Yes, we all make mistakes and say things we may regret later, but if he’s the right person, he will forgive you for it and move on.

No, this isn’t an easy thing to do and it may take some time, but trust me when I tell you, regrets should be something you did in the past, you’re better than this and you’re moving on. Get ready ladies, because your Mr. Right, will love you for who you are!



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